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Let’s look at communication differences between women and men. In the first scenario, two women are sitting at a bar talking about a haircut. The first woman says, “Oh, you got a haircut. That’s so cute!” The second woman says, “Do you really think so? I wasn’t too sure when she gave me the mirror. It’s not too fluffy?” “It’s perfect”, the first woman says. “I’d love to get my hair cut like that, but my face is too wide. I’m stuck with this.” “Are you serious?”, the second woman says. “Your face is adorable. You could easily get one of those layer cuts. I was going to do that but my neck is too long.” “Oh, that’s funny!”, the first woman says. “I’d love to have your neck. Better than my football player shoulders!” “I would love to have your shoulders”, the second woman says. “Everything drapes so well on you. Look at my short arms. If I had your shoulders, I could get clothes to fit me better.” Now, let’s compare this scenario to one where two men are sitting at a bar talking about a haircut. The first man says, “Haircut?” The second man says, “Yeah.”